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The Gay Men's Edition
January 2004
Volume 1 Number 3
By Richard Labonte
A Virtual Breakdown
First I was struck blind, then I was struck (virtually) dumb. The blind bit is
taken care of, after a summer of surgeries last year that delayed
my contributions to Books to Watch Out For, but has left me with
quite fine eyes again. Then Carol needed a few weeks to tweak the
inner workings of the back office (processing subscriptions, making
hyperlinks work, setting up the email); and just when all that tech
stuff was sorted out, my heretofore trusty workhorse iMac had a
nervous breakdown. Unfortunately, the nearest qualified therapist
was a long, long drive from my rural life, so a few weeks went by
before all was well again. But now Carol and I are set for the monthly
schedule we had planned on . . . thanks for your patience.
Deep Inside the Lambda Literary Awards
Hmmm. Despite that vaguely
tabloid headline, this newsletter entry isn't really an expose of behind-the-scenes
skullduggery in the high-stakes, hurt-egos world of the Lambda Literary Awards.
Anyone can quibble with the Lammy finalists, and many do; I do, every year
- and I've been assisting the hard-working Lambda Book Report staff with the
awards from their very inception in 1988. In the early days, I nominated titles
like anyone else; I've long been part of an advisory panel that helps make
sure the right books are in the right categories, that they were published
in the right year, and that exceptional books missed by nominators make it
onto the long list of nominees. Most years, books I really, really like don't
make it even as finalists - let alone win.
For the record - and I don't
think this has been done anywhere before - three lists follow. The first is
of official Lammy finalists - the titles dozens of judges are even now assessing,
picking the "winner" to be announced at the Lambda Literary Foundation
banquet later this year at the annual Book Expo America. The second reflects
my choices in each category, ranked from highest to lowest in preference;
my totals were added to those of the other members of a "finalists committee"
- booksellers, reviewers, magazine editors, etc., an eclectic, savvy bunch
of people with an affinity for print - and then averaged, massaged, pondered,
tweaked, and stroked to produce the official list. I've reported after each
category how many of my preferences were chosen - please note that I scored
0 out of 5 in the Gay Fiction category (though three of the five finalists,
Bram, Russell, and Truong, came from additions I made to the original long-list
of nominees); my particular tastes fared better in other categories. Whew.
And the third list - well,
the data is raw, but revealing. I think the sheer number of titles that were
nominated belies the claims that queer publishing is in serious decline. And
while I don¹t have the numbers to confirm this, my impression is that fewer
titles were nominated this year than in previous years - though starting last
year and continuing for 2003 titles, anyone nominating a book (publishers,
editors, authors, even fans of a book) were required to remit a $20 fee for
every title, an attempt by the perennially cash-strapped Lambda Literary Foundation,
which administers the Lammies, to defray costs. There has been a pronounced
shift from Big Publishers to Smaller Presses, but - particularly in the fiction
and queer theory categories - there is a wealth of good books to read, and
a wealth of topics tackled by our writers.
Here are the lists - a bit of analysis follows.
The Lambda Literary Award Finalists
Lesbian Fiction
And Then They Were Nuns, by Susan J. Leonardi, Firebrand Books
Southland, by Nina Revoyr, Akashic Books
The Way the Crow Files, by Anne-Marie MacDonald, Harper Collins
This Wild Silence, by Lucy Jane Bledsoe, Alyson Books
What Night Brings, Carla Trujillo, Curbstone Press
Gay Fiction
Beijing, by Philip Gambone, University Of Wisconsin
Lives of the Circus Animals, by Christopher Bram, William Morrow
The Book of Salt, by Monique Truong, Houghton Mifflin
The War Against the Animals, by Paul Russell, St. Martin's Press
Where the Boys Are, by William J. Mann, Kensington Books
Lesbian Poetry
Embers, by Terry Wolverton, Red Hen Press
Final Girl, by Daphne Gottlieb, Soft Skull Press
Swirl, by Susan McCabe, Red Hen Press
The Beautiful, by Michelle Tea, Manic D Press
The Dirt She Ate, by Minnie Bruce Pratt, University of Pittsburgh
Gay Poetry
Middle Earth, by Henri Cole, FSG
Otherhood: Poems, by Reginald Shepherd, University of Pittsburgh
Saying the World, by Peter Pereira, Copper Canyon
Sky Lounge, by Mark Bibbins, Graywolf Press
The Healing Art, by Rafael Campo, W.W. Norton
Lesbian Mystery
Cry Havoc, by Baxter Clare, Bella Books
Damn Straight, by Elizabeth Sims, Alyson Books
Epitaph for an Angel, by Lauren Maddison, Alyson Books
Owl of the Desert, by Ida Swearingen, New Victoria Press
The Woman Who Found Grace, by Bett Reece Johnson, Cleis Press
Gay Mystery
Blind Eye, by John Morgan Wilson, St. Martin's Press
Bourbon Street Blues, by Greg Herren, Kensington Books
Dead Egotistical Morons, by Mark Richard Zubro, St. Martin's Press
It Takes Two, by Elliot Mackle, Alyson Books
Wearing Black to the White
Party, by David Stukas, Kensington Books
Fiction Anthologies
All I Want for Christmas, by Jon Jeffrey/Chris Kenry/William J. Mann/Ben Tyler,
Kensington Books
Best Lesbian Love Stories
2003, ed. by Angela Brown, Alyson Books
M2M,
ed. by Karl Woelz, AttaGirl Press
Pulp Friction, ed. by Michael Bronski, St. Martin's Press
Telling Moments, ed. by Lydia Hall University of Wisconsin
Nonfiction Anthology
Boyfriends from Hell, ed. by Kevin Bentley Green Candy Press
Mortal Secrets, ed. by Robert Klitzman and Ronald Bayer, John Hopkins
Queer Crips, ed. by Bob Guter and John R. Killacky, Harrington Park Press
The Love That Dare Not
Speak Its Name, ed. by Greg Wharton, Boheme Press
The Philosopher Queen, ed. by Chris Cuomo, Rowman & Littlefield
Memoir/Autobiography
Cleopatra's Wedding Present, by Robert Tewdwr Moss, University of
Wisconsin
Going the Other Way, by Chris Bull and Billy Bean, Marlowe & Company
Highsmith: A Romance of
the 1950’s, by Marijane Meaker, Cleis Press
Naked in the Promised Land, by Lillian Faderman, Houghton Mifflin
She's Not There, by Jennifer Finney, Broadway Books
Biography
Beautiful Shadow: A Life, by Andrew Wilson, Bloomsbury
Intertwined Lives, by Lois W. Banner, Alfred A. Knopf
Lost Prophet, by John D'Emilio, Free Press
Original Youth: The Real
Story of Edmund White's Boyhood, by Keith Fleming, Green Candy Press
That Furious Lesbian, by Robert A. Schanke, Southern Illinois University Press
Children/YA
Boy Meets Boy, by David Levithan, Knopf Books for Young Readers
Geography Club, by Brent Hartinger, HarperTempest
Gravel Queen, by Tea Benduhn, Simon & Schuster
Keeping You a Secret, by Julie Anne Peters, Little Brown & Co.
Rainbow High, by Alex Sanchez, Simon & Schuster
Erotica
Best Gay Erotica 2004, ed. by Richard Labonte, Cleis Press
Best Lesbian Erotica 2004, ed. by Tristan Taormino, Cleis Press
Hot and Bothered 4, ed. by Karen X. Tulchinsky, Arsenal Pulp Press
Masters of Midnight, by Michael Thomas Ford/William J. Mann/Sean Wolfe/Jeff Mann, Kensington
Books
Quickies 3, ed. by James Johnstone, Arsenal Pulp Press
Humor
Chelsea Boys, by Glen Hanson and Allan Neuwirth, Alyson Books
Dykes and Sundry Other
Carbon-Based Life Forms to Watch Out For,
by Alison Bechdel, Alyson Books
Men are Pigs, But We Love
Bacon, by Michael Alvear, Kensington Books
My Big Fat Queer Life, by Michael Thomas Ford, Alyson Books
That's Why They're in Cages,
People!, by Joel Perry, Alyson Books
Romance
Best Lesbian Love Stories
2003, ed. by Angela Brown, Alyson Books
Daytime Drama, by Dave Benbow, Kensington Books
Last Summer, by Michael Thomas Ford, Kensington Books
Maybe Next Time, by Karin Kallmaker, Bella Books
They Say She Tastes Like
Honey, by Michelle Sawyer, Alyson Books
SF/Fantasy
Elf Child, by David M. Pierce, Southern Tier Editions
Necrologue, ed. by Helen Sandler, Millivres
The Red Line of Yarmald, by Diana Rivers, Bella Books
The Substance of God, by Perry Brass, Belhue Press
Vampire Thrall, by Michael Schiefelbein, Alyson Books
Spirituality
Anything But Straight, by Wayne Besen, Harrington Park Press
Gay Perspective, by Toby Johnson, Alyson Books
Gay Witchcraft, by Christopher Penczak, Red Wheel/Weiser
Keeping Faith, by Fenton Johnson, Houghton Mifflin
The Man Jesus Loved, by Theodore W. Jennings, The Pilgrim Press
LGBT Studies
Anything But Straight, by Wayne Besen, Harrington Park Press
Love in the Time of HIV, by Michael Mancilla and Lisa Troshinsky, Guilford Publications
Queer Street, by James McCourt, W.W. Norton
Strapped for Cash, by Mack Friedman, Alyson Books
Time on Two Crosses, ed. by Devon W. Carbado and Donald Weise, Cleis Press
Drama
Forbidden Acts, by Ben Hodges, Applause Theatre
Motifs and Repetitions, by C.E. Gatchalian, Writer's Collective
Prok,
by Brian Drader, J. Gordon Shillingford Publishing
The Band Plays, by Mart Crowley, Alyson Books
Women in Turmoil: Six Plays, ed. by Robert Schanke, Southern Illinois
University Press
Transgender/GenderQueer
She's Not There, by Jennifer Finney, Broadway Books
The Drag King Anthology, ed. by Donna Jean Troka, Harrington Park Press
Trans-Gendered: Theology,
Ministry, and Communities of Faith, by Justin Tanis, The Pilgrim Press
Transgender Journeys, by Virginia Ramey, The Pilgrim Press
** Editor's Note - The Man Who Would Be Queen, by J. Michael Bailey, (Joseph Henry Press) was also nominated in this category, but the nomination was later withdrawn by the Award's sponsoring organization, The Lambda Literary Foundation.
Visual Arts/Photography
A Face in the Crowd, ed. by John Peterson, Matthew Shepard Foundation
Familiar Men, by Laurie Toby Edison Shifting Focus Press
Focus on Living, by Roslyn Banish, University Of Massachusetts Press
Vacation in Ibiza, by Lawrence Schimel & Sebas, NBM-Eurotica
Women Seeing Women, ed. by Longhar Schirmer, W.W. Norton
For more info:
For awards ceremony information,
and a list of every Lambda Literary Award winner since 1988 – www.lambdalit.org
Some analysis: in the earliest of days, nominations were
dominated by gay, lesbian, and smaller presses; then for a few years the major
publishers, most of them based in New York, tended to win a majority of the
Lammies; in the past couple of years, the pendulum appears to have swung back
to smaller and more queer publishers.
For books of 2003, Alyson
is far and away the most prominent publisher - queer or otherwise - with 15
nominations for 14 books; Cleis Press is the next gay-run press, with five.
Among presses not primarily queer but with a large lesbigay footprint, Kensington's
imaginative slate of genre fiction (romance, humor, mystery, and particularly
its clever anthologies of themed novellas) won it eight nominations; Harrington
Park Press has five nominations for four titles (though only one for its ambitious
and eclectic Southern Tier and Alice Street fiction imprints); St. Martin's,
without its pioneering Stonewall Inn Editions imprint – it was eliminated
a couple of years ago, though a good number of gay books are still published
- has four nominations; and the University of Wisconsin and The Pilgrim Press,
both with notable gay lists, have three each. Add in the likes of Firebrand,
Bella, AttaGirl, Belhue, Millivres, Manic D, and Arsenal Pulp, on the queer
side, and Soft Skull, Akashic, Red Hen, Copper Canyon, and Graywolf on the
inclusive side, and almost 70 of the 100 nominees come from smaller or gayly
aggressive publishers. It's a situation I believe promises a fine future for
our community's writers and readers.
My Nominees In Each Category
(Ranked
best to least best)
Lesbian Fiction
5 Southland, Nina Revoyr,
Akashic Books
4 What Night Brings,
Carla Trujillo, Curbstone Press
3 This Wild Silence,
Lucy Jane Bledsoe, Alyson
2 The End of Youth,
Rebecca Brown, City Lights Press
1 The Way the Crow Flies,
Ann-Marie MacDonald, HarperCollins
(I picked 4 of 5 nominees)
Gay Fiction
5 Dancer, Colum McCann,
Metropolitan Books
4 Denny Smith and Other
Stories, Robert Gluck, Clear Cut Press
3 Timoleon Vita Come Home,
Dan Rhodes, Canongate
2 Leave Myself Behind,
Bart Yates, Kensington Books
1 The Music of Your Life,
John Rowell, Simon & Schuster
(0 of 5! - even though I added
the Bram, Russell, and Truong titles, all of them superb books, to the gay
fiction category; to my mind, there were more than a couple of dozen worthy
gay fiction titles this year…)
Lesbian Poetry
5 Embers, Terry Wolverton,
Red Hen Press
4 The Dirt She Ate,
Minnie Bruce Pratt, University of Pittsburgh Press
3 Final Girl, Daphne
Gottlieb, Soft Skull Press
2 The Beautiful, Michelle
Tea, Manic D Press
1 Swirl, Susan McCabe,
Red Hen Press
(5 for 5)
Gay Poetry
5 Middle Earth, Henri
Cole, FSG
4 The Healing Art,
Rafael Campo, W.W. Norton
3 Otherhood: Poems,
Reginald Shepherd, University of Pittsburgh Press
2 Saying the World,
Peter Pereira, Copper Canyon Press
1 With Fingers at the Tips
of My Words, M.J. Arcaugelini, Beautiful Dreamer Press
(4 of 5)
Lesbian Mystery
5 Epitaph for an Angel,
Lauren Maddison, Alyson
4 The Woman Who Found Grace,
Bett Reece Johnson, Cleis
3 Cry Havoc, Baxter
Clare, Bella
2 Owl of the Desert,
Ida Swearingen, New Victoria
1 Damn Straight, Elizabeth Sims, Alyson
(5 of 5)
Gay Mystery
5 The Dirt Peddler,
Dorien Grey, GLB Books
4 With You in Spirit,
Steven Cooper, Alyson
3 Mr. Timothy, Louis
Bayard, HarperCollins
2 Tongue Tied, Richard
Stevenson St. Martin's
1 Blind Eye, John Morgan
Wilson, St. Martin's
(1 of 5)
Fiction Anthology
5 M2M, ed. by Karl
Woelz, AttaGirl Press
4 Telling Moments,
ed. by Lydia Hall, University of Wisconsin Press
3 Death Comes Easy,
ed. by Peter Burton, Millivres
2 Necrologue, ed. by
Helen Sandler, Millivres
1 All I Want for Christmas,
by Jon Jeffrey, Chris Kenry, William J. Mann, Ben Tyler, Kensington
(3 of 5)
Nonfiction Anthology
5 Boyfriends From Hell,
ed. by Kevin Bentley, Green Candy Press
4 Mortal Secrets: Truth
and Lies in the Age of AIDS, ed. by Robert Klitzman & and Ronald Bayer,
John Hopkins University Press
3 Queer Crips: Disabled
Gay Men and Their Stories, ed. by Bob Guter & John R. Killacky, Harrington
Park
2 The Love that Dare Not
Speak Its Name: Essays on Queer Desire and Sexuality, ed. by Greg Wharton,
Boheme Press
1 Think Again, ed.
by Colin Robinson & Steven Fullwood
(4 of 5)
Memoir/Autobiography
5 Cleopatra's Wedding Present,
Robert Tewdwr Moss, University of Wisconsin
4 Highsmith: A Romance
of the 1950's, Marijane Meaker, Cleis Press
3 Naked in the Promised
Land, Lillian Faderman, Houghton Mifflin
2 Going the Other Way,
Billy Bean with Chris Bull, Marlowe & Co.
1 What We Lost, Dale
Peck, Houghton Mifflin
(4 of 5)
Biography
5 Lost Prophet: The Life
and Times of Bayard Rustin, John D'Emilio, Free Press
4 Original Youth: The True
Story of Edmund White’s Boyhood, Keith Fleming, Green Candy Press
3 Siegfried Sasson: The
Journey from the Trenches, Jean Moorcroft Wilson, Routledge
2 That Furious Lesbian:
The Story of Mercedes de Acosta, Robert A. Schanke Southern Illinois University
Press
1 Beautiful Shadow: A Life
of Patricia Highsmith, Andrew Wilson Bloomsbury
(4 of 5)
Children's/Young adult
5 Geography Club, Bret
Hartinger, HarperCollins
4 Keeping You a Secret,
Julie Anne Peters, Little Brown
3 Boy Meets Boy, David
Levithan, Random House
2 Rainbow High, Alex
Sanchez, Simon & Schuster
1 Pebble in a Pool,
William Taylor, Alyson
(4 of 5)
Erotica
Because the anthology I edit,
Best Gay Erotica, was on the long-list of nominees, I had no opinion
for the Lambda folks - but I really liked the collections by Ian Philips,
Greg Wharton, and Shaun Levin ... none of which were nominated.
Humor
5 Chelsea Boys, Glen
Hanson & Allan Neuwirth, Alyson
4 Dykes and Sundry Other
Carbon Based Life Forms to Watch Out For, Alison Bechdel, Alyson
3 That's Why They're in
Cages, People!, Joel Perry, Alyson
2 Men are Pigs, But We
Love Bacon, Michael Alvear, Kensington
1 Sex, Lies, and Stereotypes,
Kim Ficera, Kensington
(4 of 5)
Romance
5 Last Summer, Michael
Thomas Ford, Kensington
4 Maybe Next Time,
Karin Kallmaker, Bella
3 He's the One, Timothy
James Beck, Kensington
2 Best Lesbian Love Stories
2003, ed. by Angela Brown, Alyson
1 They Say She Tastes Like
Honey, Michelle Sawyer, Alyson
(4 of 5)
SF/Fantasy
5 Vampire Thrall, Michael
Schiefelbein, Alyson
4 Masters of Midnight:
Erotic Tales of the Vampire, Michael Thomas Ford, Jeff Mann, William J.
Mann and Sean Wolfe, Kensington
3 Stars: Original Stories
Based On the Songs of Janis Ian, ed. by Janis Ian & Mike Resnick,
Tor
2 The Red Line of Yarmald,
Diana Rivers, Bella
1 The Substance of God:
A Spiritual Thriller, Perry Brass, Belhue Press
(3 of 5)
Religion/Spirituality
5 Keeping Faith, Fenton
Johnson, Houghton Mifflin
4 The Man Jesus Loved:
Homoerotic Narratives from the New Testament, Theodore W. Jennings Jr.,
The Pilgrim Press
3 Gay Witchcraft: Empowering
the Tribe, Christopher Penczak, Samuel Weiser
2 Reconciling Journey:
A Devotional Workbook for Gay and Lesbian Christians, Michal Anne Pepper,
The Pilgrim Press
1 Gay Perspective,
Toby Johnson, Alyson
(4 of 5)
LGBT Studies
5 Queer Street: Rise and
Fall of an American Culture 1947-1985, James McCourt, W.W. Norton
4 Strapped for Cash,
Mack Friedman, Alyson
3 Drag Queens at the 801
Cabaret, Leila J. Rupp & Verta Taylor, University of Chicago
2 Butterflies Will Burn:
Prosecuting Sodomites in Early Modern Spain and Mexico, Federico Garza
Carvajal, University of Texas
1 Touching Feeling: Affect,
Pedagogy, Performativity, Eve Kosofsky Sedgwick Duke University
(2 of 5)
Drama
There were only five titles nominated, so all five are
finalists.
Transgender/GenderQueer
5 She's Not There: A Life
in Two Genders, Jennifer Finney Boylan, Broadway Books
4 Transsexualism: Illusions
and Reality, Colette Chiland, Wesleyan University
3 Transgender Journeys,
Virginia Ramey Mollenkott and Vanessa Sheridan, The Pilgrim Press
2 The Man Who Would Be
Queen: The Science of Gender-Bending and Transsexualism, J. Michael Bailey,
Joseph Henry Pres
1 The Drag King Anthology,
ed. by Donna Troka Harrington Park
(4 of 5)
Visual Arts/Photography
5 Familiar Men, Laurie
Toby Edison, Shifting Focus Press
4 Red Threads: The South
Asian Queer Connection in Photographs, Poulomi Desai & Parminder Sekhon,
Millivres
3 Vacation in Ibiza,
Lawrence Schimel & Sebas, NBM-Eurotica
2 Women Seeing Women,
ed. by Lonthar Schirmer, W.W. Norton
1 A Face in the Crowd,
ed. John Peterson and Martain Bedogne, Matthew Shepard Foundation
(4 of 5)
The
Long List From Which the Finalists Were Selected
(Original typos intact; the "additions" were added by the finalist's
panel if we thought a deserving title hadn’t been submitted by the author, the
publisher, or the public at large.)
There are well over 300 books on this list; a few are self-published vanities,
some are just plain bad, and many are of marginal use. But there are also a
breathtaking number of fine, fine books that weren't chosen as finalists - Maureen
Brady, Rebecca Brown, and Carla Tomaso from lesbian fiction; Edmund White, John
Sam Jones, John Rechy, Matt Sycamore Bernstein, Joseph Olshan, Brian Bouldrey,
Mark Merlis, Louis Bayard, and Bart Yates from gay fiction; and too many excellent
works to list here from the ill-defined LGBT Studies category - the category
most in need of refining.
(And while it makes great good sense to keep separate categories for lesbian
fiction and gay fiction, I've never been sure why the poetry and mystery categories
haven't been blended, as is the case with every other category. I haven't been
to a Lambda Literary Awards banquet for a few years now, but I remember several
ceremonies that dragged on and on ... and on ... and on; it couldn't hurt to
have fewer categories.)
Here's the "raw" data: gasp over the books that were overlooked,
wonder why anyone bothered submitting any given title, marvel at the range of
topics we queers write about . . .
Click here for The
Long List from which the finalists were selected:
And Speaking of Winners: The Stonewall Awards
The
American Library Association’s Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgendered
Round Table announced this year's winners of the Stonewall Book
Awards, which will be presented at the 2004 ALA Annual Conference
in Orlando, June 24-30. Each year, ABA’s GLBT Round Table honors
one work of fiction (The Barbara Gittings Literature Award) and
one work of nonfiction (The Israel Fishman Nonfiction Award), as
well as four honorable mentions in each of the two categories. The
winners:
Fiction
The Book of Salt, by Monique Truong
Nonfiction
The Lost Prophet: The Life
and Times of Bayard Rustin, by John D‚Emilio
Honorable Mentions for Fiction
Cutting Room, by Louise Welsh (Canongate Books)
Keeping You a Secret, by Julie Ann Peters
Lives Of The Circus Animals, by Christopher Bram
Southland, by Nina Revoyr
Honorable Mentions for
Nonfiction:
Beautiful Shadow: A Life
Of Patricia Highsmith, by Andrew Wilson
Before Stonewall: Activists
For Gay And Lesbian Rights In Historical
Context, edited by Vern L. Bullough (Harrington Park Press)
Intertwined Lives: Margaret
Mead, Ruth Benedict And Their Circle,
by Lois W. Banner (Alfred A Knopf).
Ridiculous!: The Theatrical
Life And Times Of Charles Ludlam, by David
Kaufman (Applause)
And for a list of past winners
– all the way back to 1971, when Isabel Miller’s Patience and Sarah
was the honored title, click here.
Wedding Belles
I write with some insight
about gay weddings - in October 2003, I married my partner of 11 years, Asa
Liles. It was a real wedding: I have the wedding permit issued by the nonplussed
("two same-sex licenses in one day; my goodness, this is a first for
me") and entirely civil town clerk of Renfrew, Ontario, the 6,000-population
urban center closest to the very rural farm where the wedding took place;
I have the official wedding certificate issued soon after by the Province
of Ontario; Asa and I were wed by a retired minister of the Unitarian Church,
a lesbian who, with her partner, has adopted children; and, rounding out the
splendid experience, we were joined the same weekend by two American couples,
old friends from Los Angeles (Danny Acosta and Ruben Chavez, who got their
license in Ottawa, where there had already been several same-sex permits issued),
and Ken White and Mark Freeman, who joined Asa and I in Renfrew for our official
sanction to indulge in the ceremony).
Above/right: The ceremony, with Best Dog, Percy, looking on. Below: A chorus line of queer couples:
Asa Liles, Richard, Mark Freeman, Ken White, Danny Acosta, and Ruben
Chavez.

It was a splendid weekend,
unexpectedly balmy for Canada's Thanksgiving, a time of year when chill winds
are often whipping dead leaves around the ankles. There were 50 guests on
hand at Marlborough Farm, a 200-acre property I've owned co-operatively with
several college friends for nearly 30 years - including elderly Arnold Jastremski,
the German-immigrant neighbor farmer who runs his cattle on our pastures;
the teen-age children of an old friend's partner from Lexington, Kentucky;
an elderly gay couple from Ottawa who have been partners for more than 30
years; and Asa's mother, Emilie Noble, from Nashville, Tennessee. And it's
why I'm reading a number of new books about the struggle for wedding rights
in America less abstractly than I might.
The most gripping of the recent
reads is Civil Wars: Gay Marriage in America (Harcourt), by David Moats, whose editorials
in support of Vermont's civil unions legislation won him and his newspaper
a Pulitzer. Moats has a good journalist's insatiable curiosity, so the book
- touted appropriately by the publisher as "a remarkable drama of democracy
at work on a human scale" - is packed with mesmerizing detail; he's also
an often-staged playwright, an able practitioner of a craft that infuses an
essentially political story with uncommon personality and humanity.
Moats focuses almost totally
on the Vermont story, but his quietly epic examination of how civil unions
came to be the law of that small state has wider implications for the freedom-to-marry
forces in America, both in the wake of the pro-wedding ruling by the Supreme
Judicial Court in Massachusetts a few months ago, and also in the face of
what' sure to be the virulent demagoguery around gay marriage by George W.
Bush's handlers in election year 2004.
"... it was also by chance
that I happened to witness the story of civil unions in Vermont. I did not
come to the issue as a gay man. I came to it as a journalist discovering the
most extraordinary story I had ever covered," Moats writes in his prologue.
"I had gay and lesbian
friends, of course, and, like anyone who manages to look beyond the distinctions
of sexual orientation, I was able to see a truth that becomes increasingly
plain as the curtains of bias are pulled aside. When love shows up it does
not always obey arbitrary social conventions. It is up to us to follow where
it leads. If it is love, it will not be sinful, abusive, or otherwise wrong."
That blessedly simple, essentially profound sentiment is the beating heart
of Civil Wars, a book of as much primary importance to the issue of
same-sex marriage – though lower-keyed - as Allan Berube's Coming Out Under
Fire was about gays in the military or Randy Shilts' And the Band Plays
On was about the early days of AIDS.
Moats universalizes the topic
of civil unions and gay marriage by focusing on the local; Davina Kotulski’s
Why You Should Give a Damn About Gay Marriage, which will be published
by Advocate Books in April 2004, is a more polemical presentation of succinct
arguments that hopes to "open the eyes of even the staunchest foe of
gay marriage" - an overly optimistic ambition, I'd say, given the hysterical
under-siege mentality of the right wing; Evan Wolfson’s Why Marriage Matters,
scheduled for the same month from Simon and Schuster, connects gay marriage
to other equality movements, a sensibly honorable linkage Moats makes in more
personal and less historical and legalistic language; also in April - I guess
June isn't the month for queer wedding ... books - comes Jonathan Rauch's
Gay Marriage: Why It Is Good for Gays, Good for Straights, and Good for
America, from Times Books; and in a self-help vein, there is David Toussaint's
The Gay and Lesbian Wedding Guide, coming later in the year from Ballantine
- a step-by-step look at wedding planning, from where to buy the flowers,
to types of commitment ceremonies, to how to tell Aunt Betty you're gay before
the big day.
More specific to my own marriage
is a book already published - Just Married: Gay Marriage and the Expansion
of Human Rights, by Kevin Bourassa and Joe Varnell (from Doubleday in
Canada, from the University of Wisconsin in the U.S.) It's a riveting first-hand
account of their January, 2001 wedding in Toronto's Metropolitan Community
Church, and the subsequent legal process which resulted in Ontario's Supreme
Court okaying same-sex wedding licenses in June, 2003. Asa and I were married
four months later; now we're starting the process of obtaining legal residency
for him here in Canada, as my spouse . . .
For more info:
Davina Kotulski is active
with Marriage Equality California -
http://www.marriageequalityca.org/home.php
There's a dated but interesting
interview with David Moats about winning the Pulitzer for his same-sex supporting
editorials (with celebratory photos) -
http://journalism.smcvt.edu/echo/12.11.02/David%20Moats.htm
Evan Wolfson has founded an
organization committed to the freedom to marry - http://www.geocities.com/freedomtomarry/ftm_homepage.htm
Jonathan Rauch is profiled
here, with links to many of his columns for The National Journal, including
several on gay marriage -
http://www.indegayforum.org/authors/rauch/
And Kevin Bourassa and Joe
Varnell are celebrated for their pioneering queer marriage efforts in Canada,
here -
http://www.samesexmarriage.ca/bios/
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